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I live in a Tower block and on my floor there lives a couple who have a son of 20 who has autism. For most of this young lads life he has been living away from home in a special centre for Autistic children. However a couple of years ago he was deemed to be too old for this centre and was sent back home to live with his parents.
I know the parents well and have spoken to the lad a few times over the years when he has come home for visits, like Christmas, Easter and so on. For the past 3 weeks this young lad has spent some time in my company and has visited me on his own. His parents have no reason to question this and are happy to see their son lead a relatively normal life.
The lad acts very girly and I have always attributed this to his autism. However it is becoming very obvious he is not hetrosexual. I say this because he is aware that I am gay. A few days ago we were looking at an online camera shop and he opened a new window and launched this site, as I have the shortcut on my browsers bookmark bar.
We spoke about sexuality and the persecution of gays and why we hide our true identities. He accepted this and he declared he was gay. Is he gay? or is he identifying as gay because of his own experiences of persecution because he is autistic. Is he girly because he is gay or because he has never had a male role model to identify with?
Do you see my dilema?, do I scoop him up and carry him off to my bed? He has said he has had sex before in the centre where he lived and he said it was with other autistic guys and sometimes it was with care workers. Was he the victim of prolonged sexual abuse or is he really gay?. Do I believe he is gay as he declares and give him love and sex or do I dismiss him and walk away?.
Gay Marriage
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There is a possibility that within the next two years or so Gay Marriage will become legal in the UK,civil partnerships between gays having been legal fo a number of years
I was wondering what the views are of members of GBT.I would be interested to know what the position is in other countries
Being Gay, in a Catholic High School in 2012
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PinkNews.co.uk reader Andrew Doughty writes about what it’s like to be a gay teenager in a British Catholic school in 2012.
I’m sure we’ve all the heard the words ‘Faggot’, ‘Queer’, ‘Dyke’ and many other, ‘pleasant’ terms thrown around at some point in our lives. In a high school setting this could seriously knock a LGBT teen down in confidence, alongside lack of education and general knowledge of all things LGBT, I want to ask, is high school really all that bad for a LGBT teen and are things really ‘getting better’?
I remember sitting at my computer desk four years ago as a twelve year old, questioning why I had so much homework, why I was the only one in my friendship group who didn’t have pictures of half naked females on my phone (which of course, as a twelve year old I never used.) But what concerned me more, was why did I feel so uneasy around some of the guys at school, originally I just assumed I was nervous and conscious of my weight, but then of course I realised, I was gay.
Of course, as a twelve year old boy this was the worst thing possible; my friends would hate me, I was doomed to contract AIDs and I was of course, going to become the talk of the school if anyone found out, I would be the queer boy who’s family would surely hate him. Initially, in my fear and naivety, the 12 year old me thought it was only a phase, I was a good person, an academic boy who was a bit chubby, but happy enough; and undoubtedly, that meant I couldn’t be gay, right?
Upon entering my third academic year at school I eventually came to terms with my sexuality, but lacked the confidence to come out. I had dropped most of my fears, I knew that AIDs wasn’t just an ‘LGBT-only’ condition. Still, I was a little in the dark about things; going to a Catholic school meant that sex and relationships were hardly discussed, unless the word ‘Family’ was being rammed down your throat. I had absolutely no chance learning about LGBT relationships.
After comfort eating my way from September onwards I found myself constantly stressed, I hated school and to be quite honest I just wanted to stay at home all the time. At this point I had told around seven of my friends. Many more knew of course, both by suspicion and I later found out one of my friends had told others; but forgive and forget. I finally came out March 14, the third year into high school aged 14.
I was knocked with confusion, why did the people who had previously called me a ‘Fag’ and insisted I come out suddenly start to respect me? From this moment, life seemed to lift up. My mood swings became a lot less frequent and the friends I fell out with started to be pretty civil with me.
Writing this nearly two years on, I’m now deputy-head boy of my school and life seems to be the complete opposite of how I imagined being out of the closet like, at the age of twelve. I’ve had no problems with my sexuality.
But I have wondered on the odd occasion, why does there seem to be a witch-hunt with people my age about their suspected LGBT peers and why have schools done next to nothing to educate people about sexuality?
Whenever I attend parties, it’s very much a usual occurrence for a number of my slightly drunken friends (and friends of friends) to come along and engage in the: ”So, how did you know you was gay?” or ”How do two men have sex Andrew?” conversations. Which of course, were irritating at first but then it dawned on me…How can people accept me, how can they accept anyone LGBT if they don’t understand them and why they love the people they do, or be the person they want to be.
To be blunt, more needs to be done to make people more accepting. High schools will only become more tolerant, when people my age are in the know. How can the average person possibly be accepting of someone when all their life they’ve never been told, that being gay is just as acceptable as being heterosexual, that being transgender is normal; that having all these thoughts and feelings, that you have when you’re entering puberty, are all normal.
I’d hardly say high school is a safe haven just yet for LGBT teens. Hateful comments seem to be less common place, but casual homophobic slurs are ever present. Today alone I counted as I went about my school life. The word ‘Faggot’ was used twice, once in PE when someone in my class used the term ‘Faggot pass’ and then later in the week, a lower-school pupil called his friend a faggot for not lending him some money.
”It’s only casual.” You may say, but I have friends who, because of stuff they hear around and out of school are fearful of coming out and for what? Casual homophobic comments.
Things look brighter for LGBT teens, I feel like I’ve got first hand experience of that. But much more needs to be done before things are as they should be. I certainly feel it’s achievable. But we’ll have to see what the future brings, but I’m sure wherever it goes – it will be more accepting and equal.
Andrew tweets at @MrAndrewDougty
I'm Still Here...LOL
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Well...I apparently let my nerves get the best of me and I freaked out last night. I just thank God that the rumors weren't true and that I lived to see another day. :) Thank you for checking up on me and giving me words of advice and wisdom and smiles...you know who you are. I thank God for my life and that I am a lucky man that gets a chance to fix up his life for the better. And now...a jack off and bed....lol....long day. :)))))
Just in case you didn't see this on my wall ...
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Just want to say hi to everyone, and I'm sorry I've not been in touch with anyone recently. Last month we had the news that my sister isn't going to make it, the doctors say they can't do anything more for her. So as a family we're all going through a really horrible time. It's been the worst Christmas ever. I'm trying to get my head around it all but I'm still not feeling too sociable tbh, so I hope you all can bear with me for a while, please. Sorry.
Craziest/raunchiest
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what is the craziest/raunchiest thing you have done...It can be sexual or not
uploading...?
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i tried several times to upload some vids...just one is online now...upload for all of them was successfull posted...but they are not visible...
whats wrong..?
Site again not working with ipads.
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Once again all is hunky dory when viewed via desktop, but no vids will work when attempted with my preferred route, my ipads. Too bad, as all other tube sites fade to a pale pink compared with this one.
site changes.. please?
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i think the updates from subsribers should have a link to the new content right in the "subject" area
and we should get something that's like a instant messenger sines i have the problem of deleting subscription messages along with messages from other people by mistake.
any other suggestions??
Shoot More Cum...
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<p>Does anyone have any tips on how I can increase the amount I shoot when I cum? Thanks Guys..</p>
More Bisexuals/Straight dudes than Gay guys on GBT?
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<p>I was looking at the vids posted over the last day or so, and the vid with the most views is "lucky girl"--straight porn. Either homos are a minority here or there are a few gay boys who have not seen straight sex and were curious I guess. Interesting anyway....</p>
I LIKE MY PIZZA WITH MEAT!
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<p style="text-align: center;"><img src="https://i.minus.com/ibbuOhKFYX4G8P.jpg" alt="" width="324" height="518" /></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Re-blogged from GBT member Martin56 from his Tumblr blog: mike-dnola.tumblr.com</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>THANKS MIKE!</strong></p>
je cherche des jeunes mecs
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