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<p>Just trying to, well, say, I feel deeply about my friends on here, I am emotional person didnt use to be, used to keep it bottled up, until I joined here. Came first to enjoy

<p>Does anyone know if they got the password recovery fixed yet?

<p>thanks for deleting my blog...</p>

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<p>Hello wonderful

<p><img src="http://i.imgur.com/4KC6P0E.jpg" alt="" width="642" height="427" /></p> <p>View from my bungolo Morro Bay California</p>

<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">What follows is an honest account of my perception and experience here. I'm certainly not posting anything that would go against TOS, but also, I have no desire to anger administrators (I assume they read everything). I'm still relatively new to GBT. I joined the site some time ago, forgot about it for a long time, and then came back. I ran across it initially for the same reason as everyone here I'm sure--I was looking for non-pay porn, specifically legal young men, the younger the better. That's my preference, my orientation, and my fantasy. I consider this to be an ingrained part of myself. Something that will never change, just as people assume that it is not possible to change homosexual orientation. However, I never appear to be something I'm not online, and I won't do that here. I will also state (and perhaps this will stop the messages coming requesting how old I am) that I'm middle aged, so I don't have any illusions that young men would be interested in me. When I was that age, I wasn't interested in older men, so I understand this completely. In my opinion, the only reason a young man might be interested in a middle aged man is for money, and I never wanted this kind of relationship. So it's quite apparent that my fantasy world is more than a little pathetic. I also understand this, but as I said, I don't think I'll ever change. The only thing that might ever ameliorate this a bit is a relationship with a similar age peer, but I don't see this happening, so I'm stuck in this fantasy world. I'm also aware that this is somewhat a detriment to my own advancement and personal growth. I'm not at all against pornography, and I view any attempt to silence it as free speech to be backwards and puritanical. The two things that concern me here are possible copyright issues (despite the disclaimer for uploads, I know that all these clips can't belong legally to those that upload them), and the very few people here that have approached me for underage material. Incredibly stupid on a number of levels, because you never know who you are talking to, or even who is running this site. What is my point in all this? I suppose I'm simply curious. For those of you that might be older than the 20 somethings here, do you find that porn and fantasy is a detriment in any area of your life? Do you share any of the concerns I expressed? How do you deal with being an older man attracted to very young men, but realizing that you can never have this in your life? Thanks in advance for any responses.<br /><br /><img src="http://i.imgur.com/ZIV49AL.jpg" alt="" width="664" height="418" />

<p>A musical interlude, for those so inclinded. And no, the song isn't about necrophilia. For those of you too young to remember, it's about Aids in the 80s, and losing those you love and that are dear to you.</p> <p>http://youtu.be/882bHckYMcQ</p> <p><img src="http://i.imgur.com/xqUJm7k.jpg" alt="" width="500" height="638" /></p>

<p>When Gay Liberation was kicking off in the late 1960s, non-conformity to heteronormative traits - marriage and monogamy being two of them - was part of the culture. This was a culture of freedom, of youth, and of possibilities. "Growing up" and getting married didn't fit into that very well.</p> <p>In the lead up to my wedding, I'd started to realise there was a certain adolescence I was letting go of. What I didn't quite comprehended, until I thought that older gentleman's comment through, was that such an adolescence isn't something a lot of gay men want to let of go of.</p> <p>Nor do they have to. Our culture permits - even encourages - an eternal Peter Pan syndrome whereby we can choose to remain young and free at heart. And we do the best we can to keep our physicality in such a state too.</p> <p>I'm not the first to call this the "gaydolescence", but this isn't a common term. I can't speak for the rest of the LGBT spectrum, but for gay men, we're allowed a much longer lease on youth than our straight counterparts.</p> <p>Until marriage equality came around, gay men were relieved of the pressures of having to couple up, move to a nice suburban neighbourhood, and spawn children to carry on the cycle.</p> <p>For the most part, the gaydolescence comes from being denied a legitimate adolescence in our teenage years. Even gay teens who grow up in the most liberal of environments have a good few years of finding out who they are. For those that aren't so lucky, the years 13 through to 18, and often beyond, are riddled with confusion and isolation (past the appreciation of most heterosexual coming-of-age experiences).</p> <p>The consequence of this is often young gay men don't partake - and actively distance themselves - from the adolescent experiences of teenage love, sex, even good friendships. Both implicitly via societal norms and explicitly by schoolyard bullies, gay teenagers are more likely to miss out almost entirely on the education of adolescence. They're perennially relegated to the sidelines as observers, shallow stereotypes, and outcasts.</p> <p>While usually there are others to blame for this (like the aforementioned bullies), gay men only realise in later years that the onus was on them to have a proper adolescence, and we built up protective barriers of our own which prevented it. The fall out effect of this becomes apparent when we accept who we are, at 18, 22, or sometimes 30 or older, and then we become 16 year old boys all over again.</p> <p>Sex drives ramp up. We join a party culture that doesn't stop for anything. We date around and finally get the sexual education we missed out on (and then some).</p> <p>It's obvious that gaydolescence extends to some gay mens' physical appearance, too. Buffed up from the gym like the athletes we wanted to be in high school, we're finally able to enjoy the prime years of ultimate fitness and boysie banter we were once denied. We try to stop time in other ways as well; notably in our skincare and hair regimes, and our wardrobe choices. Only on gay men is it still acceptable to wear hi-tops and tank tops at 38.</p> <p>For some guys, the gaydolescence never really ends. Others might drag it out until their mid-40s when they realise a the benefits of a prolonged adolescence are no longer outweighed by the effort it takes. But for the gay men coupling up and getting married early-ish in life (myself included) our gaydolescence isn't even going to last into our 30s.</p> <p>My enduring gaydolescence may be over. But that's not to say I'm going to get fat. I'm not throwing out my tank tops, nor do I plan to stop having fun. I'm married, not dead, and there are some things I have now - things I never had as a teenager - that I'll never give up.</p> <p>

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 i appreciate the effort you are putting into this site.

Just want to thank our friends here on GBT for there Blogs and Videos.Thank you nick for making this site so good. God bless all of you

oh sorry i was dreaming  im awake now

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He finally came out to his mother. But his father will not know for awhile. She is accepting of both of us. We told her everything. Dallas's mother and father are now separated. His father has moved out of the apartment. He was told to work on his anger issues, his drinking problems, and his hateful additude towards Dallas. 

Today I reached my 100 day anniversary on GBT and what a great time I've had.  Made some wonderful friends and enjoyed some hot moments in pics and vids.  Just want to thank everyone for making me feel at home :) 

Today marks 1900 Days for  Jesse ...Thanks Buddy for being a long time friend to some of us here..

everyone set for Christmas yet? 

i certainly am, got the turkey, the beer, the condoms, the lube......am i missing anything?