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Being Bisexual

Candy Blog Last Activity 8 months ago 5.8K views 126 comments

I've been struggling with this for years now, with the self-realizations that made me figure out that I sometimes hate being bisexual. And I hate that I can't change that. And that this is the only place I can say that where I can feel even a shred of understanding because I'm the only person like myself in my life.

Being bisexual is hard enough as it is, since we're the all-but-disowned black sheep, perceived accidental babies in the LGBT community. Not even other queer people want us around. And as for being a bi man, any modicum of recognition or admirable representation or support this community receives is completely passed on to us. We're either seen as "straight and trying to be gay", "gay but in denial", or "faking it for attention.

I'm tired of feeling inadequate. I'm tired of feeling like my sexuality isn't valid. I'm tired of constantly feeling like 1 have mental problems and thinking my bisexuality is just a neurological disorder. I hate that I can't just be straight or gay like a normal person and feel like I belong somewhere.

I'm not happy and a lot of that is due to who I uncontrollably am. I'm sorry for wasting your time with this. I just felt the stupid need to vent.

 

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Candy
8 months ago

Lustie
8 months ago

There nothing wrong about being bisexual. I am too and proud in some way to be Bi. Sometimes it take times to really be recognized and be sure of ourself. Just go one step at a time and you will see (i hope) that things will get easier. :)

Lustie
8 months ago

Btw since i couldn't answer to your private message i'm gonna respond here. Oopsie. The guy that i wanted to find is the one with the monkey face touching is ass in the bathroom 

Candy
8 months ago

You couldn't respond to my message? 

Lustie
8 months ago

Nop

Stable
8 months ago

Roy06
8 months ago

Candy
8 months ago

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BEACON
9 months ago

Roy06
9 months ago

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Roy06
9 months ago

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damsreyes4000
9 months ago

To the bisexuality we live in a world of labels and place in ???? at this point it is good to like boys and girls enjoy the sexual moment because you have time to is analyzing it to your heart is content I say be honest with yourself and God as well those are the only two people important in your life. As for bisexuality I give you the same advice as I got when analyzing my sexuality just imagine on one side is jet blk and on the other side totally white and projective of multple did shades of blk and white so why is analyze that you are bi or gay

Candy
9 months ago

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anuu1
9 months ago

That's exactly what I've been saying for years. There are as many shades of gray as there are people inside the box. That goes for gender also. Both orientation and gender are spectrums.

voyeur327
9 months ago

September 22 is National Celebrate Bisexuality Day!

Candy
9 months ago

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Candy
9 months ago

From Rosa Diaz in Brooklyn Nine-Nine to Adam Groff in Sex Education, hearing a character explicitly say they’re bisexual out loud shouldn’t be so rare. Shoutout to these absolute BICONS.


Stable
9 months ago

Candy
9 months ago

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Candy
9 months ago

anuu1
9 months ago

In a nutshell, true. That's funny. I need to remember that.

Stable
9 months ago


"For straights we're queer, and for queers we're straight, because everyone has to be on one side of the slash or the other."

Candy
9 months ago

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Candy
9 months ago

Being Bisexual: First and foremost, you are not broken, and you are not alone. Being bisexual is simply a part of who you are. It doesn't make you less worthy of love, respect, or belonging. It's not something to fix or fight against. It’s something to understand, embrace, and integrate with the rest of your beautiful, complex identity.

anuu1
9 months ago

Right on Candy. Being bisexual is a normal part of the spectrum of sexual orientation. It doesn't have to be 50/50. It could be 98/2, that's how I look at myself, I'm happy. Too bad some people who aren't bi can't seem to comprehend that.heart

Candy
9 months ago

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Candy
10 months ago

I like my women like I like my men.


 


That's it, that's the joke.

Roy06
10 months ago

 


 

 





 







If you're bisexual, you enjoy both worlds. I'm not, but it would be the most complete.

 


 

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10 months ago

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Although I prefer men, but these girls are cute. 


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BEACON
10 months ago

MY wife & I are both bisexual.  WE masturbate together at least once every day and only fuck once every 7 - 10 days

Stable
10 months ago

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Candy
10 months ago

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