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Any decorative dealbreakers for you?
Obviously anybody is free to decorate their body at their own will. I generally appreciate no body decorations and love the body as a work of art in and of itself. Tasteful tattoo's don't have to be deal breakers, but I know some people love to decorate their bodies as a form of expression. I can appreciate that, I just don't personally normally find it attractive outside some simple arm decorations sometimes. Justin Bieber is of course the supreme example of it. While you realize in close viewings and profile shots, that Justin still has a very defined beautiful torso and body today, you'd never know it from just looking at it in shots, etc. Are there any body decorations that are total deal breakers for any of you?
When you see a boy and you think "wow.. he's a walking poster boy for everything that is right about how God (or whatever higher power you might believe in) built boys"..
And then you look a little closer
As a caveat, I have a few tats.. 5 total... none seen when I am dressed.
Each one I got to either celebrate an aspect of my life or to keep a reminder of a tragic loss. I have a blue rosebud, a Midnight Sons dagger (shared with my brother).. a moogle writing in a book (from FF).. the Hohenzollern eagle and a fire lion.
It is my art.. and another person can only see them if I choose.. for I am rarely if ever shirtless in public.
For some people it is an addiction. I get that.. there is a certain rush to feeling the pain of the needle and the seeing of the finished product. But, as I said, a tat should have a meaning and a reason. All mine do, and are very personal.
Oh yeah! Idiots who put in Ubangi earrings, giant open rings in their cheeks so you can see inside their mouths, split tounges, horns, spikes, and dyed eyballs to name a few. You folks already covered tats so no need for me to mention that.
As mentioned below.. finding work once you've gone to the extreme of decorating your face/neck, etc. Any places you can't cover up would certainly be a challenge. I'd never hire you in my industry. You'd hardly have a shot at a job where you'd be facing clients/customers. Equally any professional job or business position would be nearly impossible to get into. Maybe you could find a good paying job in IT?
Your ability to support your child/children is a huge part of what defines you as a man. If you don't have kids.. have at it. Obviously being married I'm not in the market anyway. But if you came into my life unable to support yourself you'd better look like this or you're on your way out the door. Now if you do look like this my only expectation is you're home waiting for me when I get there. lol.
Nothing about model Stephen James appeals to me apart from his physique, which proves to be an alluring canvas for tattoo art.
I am fine with tattoos esp if they have personal meaning to the one that got them and are not just for the sake of it or gotten on a drunk bender.
Excessive piercings I do not like. One or three, ok..
Definite deal breaker, genital piercings.
The other no no for me is tongue piercings. It's not so much that I hate how they look.. but I think they are sorta gross. What drives me crazy is that the people that have them can't stop fucking with them all of the time.
For me personally I think there are two no no's for what would be a relationship, be it guy or girl. First is nose rings. I think I could tolerate a simple studded nose piercing, sometimes they look sorta cute, especially on the right girl. Guys it's a tough sell for me, but a stud would probably be okay. Nose rings on the other hand. Guess growing up on a farm ranch ruined those for me.