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@maxyboy what a fucking long way you made in just 191 days? who would say us that the young Lybian refugee who barely talked English will become this tribune with an opinion in every single blog? who would tell us that the young man with mental illness in a German camp for north-Africa refugees will become the self-determined conscience of GBT?

Did you think that deleting your previous blogs will make us forget your "history" and erase it from our memory?

No, we know who you are and the lies behind your profile. 

But, we have to recognize that your GBT course in only 191 days is awesome!

wow thirty years is a long time congratulations,why does it bother? do you feel his intent it to annoy you or it it his form of endearments for you,personally for me and my partner,he'll describe  me as husband to people we meet in it,there is no malice on anything in it ,but it can make me uncomfortable around others,i have always been shy and introvert and i was raised a catholic maybe thats where my uncomfort comes from,i usually describe him as my partner but then not all people get that lol,,

If it's bothering you its real, talking to him about could help. if you have a friend you trust maybe talk to them fist and see how he reacts ,you miss the human connection online, so hard to see emotion's in type,pe it goes well for both,Best of luck whater you decide hope it goes well for you both

My partner and I have been together for about 33 years now we are married and neither of us refer to the other as  Husband  we are partners

Have you discussed this with him?  You really should.

Maybe you should ask him if he would mind if you referred to him as your 'wife'?

there is no common law marriage in Florida .one benefit of marriage is,my husband doesn't have to work.when i die he will get about 2/3 of my social security.not to bad or better than nofin,lol

After 30 years of being in a relationship, there's little doubt that your partner is committed. However, there are some thorny legal issues about not being legally married (I don't make the rules, guys). Have a read: https://www.mckinleyirvin.com/resources/same-sex-marriage-parenting-divorce-in-washingto/ongoing-legal-issues-for-same-sex-couples/ 

I really understand why Leo has "a real problem with the word "husband"... his 12yo boyfriends are too young for a husband/wife relationship!

Like kevnkyle said it's called common law marriage. After 7 yrs yer hitched. If you love the guy why does it piss you off? Do you feel that the word husband somehow binds the 2 of you to a committed monogamous relationship? I know that whether you guys are monogamous or not is not the question and no one's business but yours but something about the word husband irritates you, can you tell us what it is? 

I know first hand that monogamy doesn't always work. My husband and I both agreed to and wanted monogamy 7 yrs ago, we've been married for about 5 1/2 years suddenly he wants the thrill of sex with strangers and is glued to Adam4Adam now with a profile. I'm on the finishing touches of filling out the divorce papers, In CA after filing it takes 6 months and 1 day for a divorce to be final. After that he gets the boot and I get to keep the cat.

the thing is this in the usa you get back more taxes for being married--if you been together for 30 yrs and still love each other go for it--my mom worked for a gay man and his -better half-- and they been together for 50 years--only had few disputes but that happenes with any relationsh--they legalized gay marriage  they got married and  few weeks later one passed away

the survivor of the two told my mom at least they were able to get married before he passed away.. because he didn't want to get married but he did it for his man because he loved him..

so do you love your man enough to quit being so sensitive or let this tension put a strain on your relationship

Of course you are NOT being sensitive.    In every aspect marriage has proven itself to be a failed institution.   The idea that law, society, and others force not only the concept on you but legally as shown here is not only morally wrong it is disturbing.    The reason for this is because it now allows you to be abused and hurt in all manners of life by both whatever government (faceless people who do NOT care about you and more than likely are out to hurt you and your interests) and any other individuals themselves.   You do not need a contract, piece of paper, permission, or decree to justify your already completely legit relationship with the person you speak of.    If we do not speak up about this and as such we are all going to be consumed by this torment of ignorance.

good gosh man,my husband and i  have been together 28 years and married 3 years.why would that piss you off.you should be happy that he thinks so much of you. you owe him an apology...i think you should give him a massage and suck his dick!,

Yes .... Yes you are.  Besides that fact that you are sensitive is the fact that legally you are common law so married ....