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Because sometimes I want to fuck and my boyfriend doesn't. He's a person, not an on-demand sex object.

My best friend is my "bed buddy."  Sometimes we fuck and suck.  Sometimes we just fuck.  Sometimes we just suck.  Other times we just jackoff.  Yes. .....i said it.....lol. It can be very sexy to do that together......doing the thing that is something you many times do in private.  Sexy to enjoy eachother feeling so good and watching the other guy.  Seeing how he touches himself and makes that good feeling happen.  My friend and i have done everything together for years and i wouldn't change anyhing.  Sometimes we ever jack eachother off.  Someone above said that it takes preparation, so masturbation is a quick and easy way to have fun.  Everyone has their way of having fun, so i don't fault anyone for having fun  their way.  Everyone have fun the way you like it.

Hi Zany !   I have to jack off 4 times a day ( at least ) and some times more !  My boy friend is not always a round and  sometimes I have to take matters into my own " hands"

Atlanta Rythm Section's "Imaginary Lover" from1978 nicely addresses the question.

i just would rather do it myself. and there is no one to i have to make b-fast for the next morning

Fucking your partner requires prep on his part and lube and patience on yours. Not to mention after you both cum you've got to clean each other up.

Committing to fucking requires planning beforehand and many times there isn't any planning involved when we decided to have some fun ;) so we usually opt to masturbate each other as it is the easiest way to enjoy ourselves.

I agree completely--if you have someone there to fuck or suck that dick why jerk it off..i got myself in a situation few times telling guys jerking off if front of each other I be like dude you got a set of lips that could be getting that  dick sucked--sometimes theyd say they weren't gay--I say have fun and when leave the room no one knows trust me a lot of guys will do shit if they know no one will find out --one guy says prove it and points his dick at me--I prove it over and over assisting each of them one even said he wants to fuck so I let him fuck me--

so now everyone has done gay things in that room no one will tell anyone about it and I got my ass fucked and sucked off some nice dicks and swallowed where their girlfriends wouldnt

Our dicks, hands, our whole bodies are wired to our brains, So it's instant control when it comes to pleasure. If you feel like edging, who can do that best for you?  Interacting physically and doing things with someone can be fun but they can't feel what you feel. Maybe they want you to do certain things to them that might be a distraction to you and what you want. There's also frequency. Having orgasms while interacting may take longer, and sometimes you just may want a quick orgasm.

Don't forget it is also the cheapest sexxx too, eh!     :)    I said to myself, sigh.    Sigh indeed.    Oh, the jokes keep coming.    Butt no really.