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I guess its time for the real story.
My account will probably be banned after this.
I surfed in here a month or so ago and browsed pictures when I suddenly stumbled upon a picture that gave me chills and a huge knot in my stomach.
WTF, a boy around 15 that looks too familiar to be true.
Unable to shake off this feeling I had to research more, so I made up this profile in order to possibly attract some of the pedos that had more information and possibly had started sharing this picture.
More clues came along and I had a wage idea were to look.
Remembering a first name I searched through women by that name in a city I had studied years ago. Linkedin, facebook.
Hardly any pictures of her anywhere but finally there she was, and connected to her was him.
I am an emotional mess now. I have a partner now, but then I was in the closet and had girlfriends.
I never knew he existed. Now, knowing is difficult and wonderful at the same time.
Next step is impossible. I can't knock on doors 20 years later, break into someones established lives. A stranger.
She might have used me or didn't know how to get in touch again.
Forget about Fondling, he doesn't exist. He has no sexual interests in C or other young boys for that matter. He is a middleaged gay man with a partner and now also a grownup wonderful son he never has met or knew existed but loves and miss intensely.
I have to leave the next steps here for C. If he wants to connect I think he knows how to. He is missed and loved. And he also has a huge extended loving family that would take him in with open arms.
I'm still confused, you claim this boy looked familiar but you also said "I never knew he existed". How can you recognize somebody you never knew existed in the first place?
Thanks for good talks with many of you. I will delete my profile now that my 'mission' is over. I am not sorry for impersonating a teenager during my 60 days here. It was necessary. A few asked if I was the one in the avatar and wondered if I had seen the video. But I never got any more info about the video. Please dont share pics of C. Please dont share pics of kids.
What a crock of bull shit lol in another blog yoou wrote that you touched Cs ass and he looked into your eyes as if to say he wants you like wtf is that nonsense and then yo say it was not C but some other guy and you write that you tried to get him booted from @gbt annd he is 20 an adult you are so full of it man. I can not wait to see what bull shit you lay on us next.
It all depends upon what he has been told. I take it that his brother is younger? How much younger? Was she expecting the first child or was he a baby when she met the brothers father? If so, he may have been brought up with the information that he IS HIS FATHER!! Like I have said before.......... I would not be trying in any way to make contact with this lad/guy UNTIL you have spoken to his mother and then she will explain how the land lies. As much as you wish to be a part of their lives...........They may want NOTHING to do with you now or in the future. The potential havoc that you could cause is astronomical and I am sure that as often as you may hear about a great reunion story in a paper or a magazine there are many more that end in disaster for all concerned. These will never be reported as they do not make for a good story/sale. Also you say that you know who his brothers father is....... sounds like you have been doing a hell of a lot of checking up on this family without their knowledge... based on that fact..... I am sure that 98% of most families would be dead against this having been done, by at the end of a day a total stranger. As you yourself said the women that you met were basically one night stands. With the checking that you have done... Are they all living good lives?? If so, maybe leave them alone and walk away. Why risk destroying their lives , in order that you may feel better in yours .... and that is if he is your son. As you could cause so much distress and cause doubt in their families household for nothing. If you care for his feelings and his life looks perfect....... then do the right thing and stay away. he has managed for 20yrs without you. Why create grief in his world. Something for you to think long and hard about. I'm sure his feelings should be of greater importance to you than yours.
Damn at least from reading the other comments I know that I'm not the only one who is thoroughly confused. The story makes no sense. How would you know what this boy looked like if you never saw him before in the first place? if I'm following the story right you got some girl pregnant & she had a baby. Unless you were following this baby from birth until 15 you would have no idea what this child looked like or if he is even yours. From the sound of things you weren't following her so you' are only guessing that this picture looked like someone who could be your child. Sounds like someone writing a preview to a novel that has yet to be finished. Count me in as one of the completely confused here.
At the end of the day. basing it all on a true account. Then you DEFINITELY speak with his mother FIRST. You have absolutely no idea what he has been told throughout his life, and your contact could destroy all his family ties if it made him walk away from them all. Plus he isn't guaranteed to welcome you suddenly appearing into his life. May be he has a strong mental mind but he could also be fragile mentally. - This you have no idea about. Plus if you have added him on any Social Media as a 'Friend' in anyway , using a false identity in order to glean information from him and get to know him in a different way, I am sure that being 20yrs old , he will not take kindly to what he may class as sneaky, and deceitful behaviour on your part.
Fondling: I don't know how your relationship ended with the woman, but if the kid is yours biologically, she must know that. Maybe its an option to contact her privately and see where she stands with you. That way you might get into contact without upsetting their the harmony of his life and his family, if you do it correctly.
This blog much like your other blogs lack plausibility...
So was 'C' just a picture on this site or does 'C' actually have a profile ?
I also don't see why you'd get banned from here, but I do have a couple of questions -
1. Are you meaning you recognized the 15 year old from 20 years ago?
2. Or recognized him from 'now'?
3. Or are you meaning he is an old friend of yours?
4. Or was he you?
5. And who is the woman?
6. And whose door would you be knocking on?
7. The now grown up 15 year old?
8. Or his parents?
The story sounds fascinating, if somewhat illogical in parts, and would love to have my questions answered.
Ok i'm at a loss here.
First of all, pretending you are a 18yo boy while irl a middle-aged man who's in a relationship is nothing new, there are a lot of people who do that. And as long as you don't hurt anyone's feelings by hooking up with them pretending to be something your not, then that's fine (although some disagree, but they just need to clean out some sand from some certain places).
As your interest in "C" well that's up to you. But you'll have to face the consequences if you contact him.
I don't see the 'ban-able' offense in your story.