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This May Be Taboo On The Blogs
As the title states, this question may be a big no-no on the blogs. However, I have been burning with curiosity for weeks and cannot stop thinking about it. The question is also potentially quite embarrassing and definitely very personal. With all of that disclaimer said: here is my question. What is it like to have a BIG penis? My internet research indicates that the "average size" for males in the U.S.A. (erect) is approximately 6 inches. After watching many (heh...many! What an understatement) of the video's on GBT it seems that most all of the guys are way above average. It got me thinking. (which is never a good thing)
So, then, in my mind, anything above 6 inches is big. A bit of personal here, I wouldn't know because I am not even average. :-( Which has always made me angry, because both of my brothers are far above average.
Does it make the sex better or more difficult for your partner? Do you have struggles with getting clothing to fit nicely? Do bigger guys really get more partners or greater sexual interest because of being "gifted?' When you were a teenager (or if you still are) was it a source of embarrassment or pride in the locker room? Do you think you have a stronger sex drive because of it?
Any brave guys out there who feel willing to satisfy my odd obsession?
P.S. If this post is breaking the posting rules, please remove it immediately. I don't want to get into trouble. Same request would apply if people find the question in poor taste. Thanks for reading!
I don't think the porn video people will use any guy who has less than 8" which is much longer than the average.
Well, my underwear do not fit right anymore. As an older person, on lots of medication, one nut hangs out the left side of my jockeys and the other nut out the right side and I usually piss all over myself before I find my little willy. But, strangely I do cum when I watch porn.
Very interesting conversation here! Myself, I´m a standard 7 incher, and with a tight cock ring my head reaches the navel. I have always dreamed of carrying a 10 incher, but that will not happen. However, I am (and have always been) fascinated by these monster cocks and wondered why some get so big and others not. Is it the diet or what is it? I am not circumzised but have a small overhang. I think big, nicely shaped cut cocks look the best!
Hey guys!
Thank you so much for the honest, thoughtful and heartfelt comments. I am glad it was okay to ask the question. It will sound ridiculous, but I get a warm feeling in my chest when I read the things we share. After reading your replies and thinking (again!) about all the experiences shared, I remembered something. When I was in Junior High School (heck, that dates me right there...it's called Middle School now) we ALWAYS had to "dress down" for P.E. Our teacher was ex-military, really strict. There were many of them in teaching during the 1970's.
My locker was right next to a boy whose penis was quite large. At least to me, an emaciated looking 13 year old with nothing going on. I knew he took pride in it. As an aside; it also helped me realize I was gay, because fantasizing about him (he was called Kent) was my favourite pastime. Sorry, off topic again.
He moved at the end of that school year. But in my mind, even as I started puberty and grew, I never matched up. His was always bigger then mine. I kept thinking, well, just wait and you will catch up. I'm pretty sure today that I never did! (chuckles) So, maybe that was what prompted my question.
I actually have lots of embarrassing questions about male anatomy, male behavior and male attitudes in general. Now I feel a little more courage to ask them. In case you were wondering I do not teach in the Psychology Department. I teach in the Humanities Department (English and History) But the questions are definitely the kind that a Psych Professor would ask!
With much affection, Luke
I'm 7 inches bit I'm bottom by choice. I've taken all sizes but it's the passion and chemistry with the partner that means most. A small or big penis matters less than the personality
Having an above average penis, for me , is great. Except hard to find trousers (pants) that fit in the crotch area.
I was the the first to develop in school, in my class/year at least, the hairiest 10/11 year old you've seen , Inc facial hair and hairy chest etc, and was even more developed than my two older brothers ( 2 year older than me) , who I found had smaller and thinner dicks to my own.
I got teased by the little kids( friends ) who were technically older than me, for my masculinity. I would also get raging erections in class which would bulge through my school uniform.
I have a very small sex drive though. To the point where I've had no sex whatsoever. Which has me thinking I could be Asexual......or just repressed.
I also cum a lot, even when I was ten .
Anyway.,,,.TMI?
We Dutch have a saying "beter een kleine die steigert dan een grote die weigert" which freely translates to: its better to have a small one that keeps on going, then a big one that refuses.
In many cases, a large one means that its hard to get stiff and keep stiff and at later age the problem becomes worse. So having a smaller penis has its advantages. And while its true that a small penis usually means that they will come faster due to their stiffness. Most smaller are faster ready for seconds then larger ones.
I personally enjoy all size dicks. Small dicks i enjoy because they keep around the edge and i like the in and out motions, Big dicks i enjoy because of the deepness and the full feeling it gives.
Same is true with playing with them. Smaller are nice to play with because they stay rock hard, and you can make it enjoyable for a long time (edging), big dicks are also nice to play with because it takes a LONG time to get to their ecstasy point.
Never heard of people having problems with fitting clothing, unless you have a monster down there.
My experience with large dicked people is that they usually have less sex-drive then people with smaller ones, and more partners is usually more a personalty thing then a endowed thing. Also looks help, not your dick-size. A large dick (stiff) can be very small flaccid. My ex had a very big dick, but when its not erect he's smaller then me (and i'm average), and unless you get a boner in the locker room... which is a no-no in most circumstances.
Hope this answers your question, and i don't think this is breaking forum rules (or blog rules cause there is no forum), and there is nothing wrong with asking those questions. In fact i think you are very brave to ask them.
The only advice i can give you is: Don't get hung up on your dick size, there are very few instances where this matters. If you feel unattractive because of this, then exercise. You will get a nice slender body and you'll feel better about your self.
My dick is less than 5 inches. Both my younger brothers are bigger than I am. In fact, my 13 yr old bro is close to 6 inches. I am a bottom and am always there for their sexual desires. Henry (youngest bro) had a 16 year old girl friend and likes Henry to wear tight shorts to show off his bulge and cute bubble butt. He gets more sex than I do, even if I get more than my share. I do not think that dick size means a lot except for the ego. ----Chad
I had a friend when I was in the navy. When are we finally got around to fooling around I was shocked by the size of his cock. He was a white guy 5'9 maybe 140 pounds.. Anyway he had a cock it was the size of his Budweiser tallboy and as big around. I could barely get the head in my mouth. He told me there're Many guys wish they had a big cock but when it's this big few can take it. He said that when he sat on the toilet he actually had to hold out of the water to be able to take a shit. Often setting on his balls and just having to accommodate the size when he sat anywhere. Now I'm not much for big cocks. 4 to 6 inches is fine with me. I myself I'm 7 1/2. And it times while riding my motorcycle it's very uncomfortable. So I can't imagine what it is like to have 8 to 10 inches swinging around.
i think being really big has as many draw backs as being really small. don't over think the issue
██...Small guys, often cum quicker, ( sometimes, really fast ) and REALLY HUGE guys, can get less penetration action..( not having that monster, in me....!! ), straight or gay...but great to show off, though.....( errmmm )..............Dave™..........██