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Would you consider watching porn cheating?

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So, Ben and I have been together for 4 years. After the first year we bought a condo in Rochester Hills and have been living together happily since. But, as with time sex is maybe once or twice a month. As with most relationships first comes lust then comes love. Who would consider looking at porn on the internet as cheating?

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marauder78
8 years ago

We (Me and my partner) do not consider it cheating.


Sorry and this might not work for everyone:We discuss everything, and as long as we do that we can do as we please, if i want to have sex with someone else, that's no issue, as long as i tell my partner about it.


We love each other, and sex for us is just having fun, and having fun with someone else. That's not a problem to us, as long as we do not start a love relationship with someone else. Talking about it with each other makes sure that we do not run into problems like jealousy or something. We consider it cheating when the other has sex in secret, cause when its a secret, then it means something else then harmless fun.


With that said, we rarely have sex with someone else, cause there is no need for that. Although sometimes we have threesomes.

8 years ago

my partner and i watch porn. sometimes for fum, sometimes for ideas, sometimes we make party games out of it. but i guess you are watching it for stimulation and to jack off. if you are only having sex once or twice a month, you might seek some advice of a doctor or counselor. i take it he is comfortable with the arrangement and you are not. masturbation is not cheating on your partner unless you do so in preference to sex. are you sure that he is not masturbating in between your sexual encounters. talk with him and communicate. his number one priority should be to want to pleasure you as much and as often as you desire and vice versa. and then sometimes it is just animal like lust and you got to have it. stay in touch. i pray it is not affecting your relationship. jase

dreeke23
8 years ago

....a dirty mind is a Joy forever ..

8 years ago

if it's done together as a couple then no, that I do not consider as cheating. The experience is shared so you both take part in the fantasy, either as a couple but also possible as an individual with your partner present. Even though he might not be in YOUR fantasy, you may well be in HIS fantasy.


However if porn is watched alone then yes, I would consider that as cheating. Why?


Because the viewer is creating an alternative reality, a fantasy in which he had the character or characters being viewed are engaging in. You are taking part in a sexual act with another person, other than your partner, albeit a fantasy. 


The next step will be a sexual activity for real, with someone other than your partner.


 

Icecream
8 years ago

No one I know. 

bqhickory
8 years ago

nobody

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