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This Neversaynever guy is someone with huge psychological problems...or an asshole with superb trolling powers. Few months ago he was here under the name Frodo and I'm absolutely sure that's the same guy when I read the message Loveboysandgirls left on his wall as proof - same ideas, same style of writing. For some reason (really don't know why) Frodo a.k.a. Neversaynever selected me as his 'victim' back then, trying to convince me to chat with him. After I politely refused, saying I don't usually chat because I don't have that much time, he contacted me by mail (I was stupid enough to have it displayed in my 'about me'), saying that I MUST talk with him or he will kill himself and started sending me pics of what he called his previous suicide attempts (cuts and bruises on his arms and similar mutilation images, claiming he did that to himself). I told him I can not help him, that he needs professional advice, something I can not offer. Next mail, something like: 'Ok, that's it, I will now kill myself, you are the only one responsible for that, I am telling it to my family, we are Sicilians, blah blah blah...'. I decided to ignore that...and few hours later there comes 'his sister' with a new account, saying he attempted suicide, that he's in hospital fighting for life, that I am guilty for that, that she called the police who will find me and arrest me for trying to kill 'her brother', that they even have mafia connections to kill me in jail :):):) That continued for some next few days with usually more than 5 mails a day, sometimes threatning to cut my throat, sending me to hell, sometimes begging 'in the name of god' to chat to 'her brother' when he 'comes back from hospital'. All that time I never answered to any of that shit, blocking all the accounts 'his sister' made here on GBT, deleting hateful posts 'she' left on my page...and then I decided to delete my profile and mail, to make a few days pause and start again with a new one, prior informing some of the friends here I will do that. The decision was made not because I was scared of some psycho who lives 10.000 km from me or that cops will knock on my door for 'driving someone to suicide', but because I was spending more and more time on my job and not having time to keep an eye on my wall where he or 'his sister' used to leave his crap. 

I started all over again, he never contacted my new account...and that's it. Problem solved. 

Have to leave now...if Frodo a.k.a. Neversaynever 'selects' some of you, I don't know what to say. I handled the problem this way and it was successful. 

Dude.  You're 18 but acting like a slighted 12 year old girl.  You're making a mountain out of a molehill threatening people yourself.  Time to man up.  It was a fucking online threat made by a couple of half wits.  Why blow it up like they're coming to your house unless you told them where to find you.  Grow some balls, block them, and move on.  You're only going to aggravate people.  I saw the threat you made to Hitachi while he had it posted.  What is so different?  You're threatening everyone here including Nick trying to sic cops on everyone and shut the site down?  You're not going to make friends that way.  Online crap happens.  Its the internet.  Just move on and drop it.  You sure don't need DADDY's help and the cops will simply ignore you.  Time to move on before you make a ton of enemies.  Just my opinion and you don't need to threaten me because you already threatened everyone here.

I just looked at his page...............last seen 5 days ago.........are you attacking the wrong person?

This is the last time that you will hear from me, My daddy comes back from Syria on special mission on Thursday, he promised me two days with him, all the hate will come out on Monday. love to my friends xxx

I really don't understand how you can sue Nick. He didn't threaten you. Frankly, I'm having a hard time following all of this.

some one thought that i was some one else, i messaged him  and him to retract his messages or stand up in court with Nick18. Ass you cans see he chose to withdraw

Love boys and girls--I agree with caftan and pimpedchillen and a few other vets here.  Remember this is ONLINE drama. Do NOT confuse this with REAL life.  Get out and try to meet some healthy gay guys.  Not sure if this is the case with NSN, but I recall some members in the past have created online personas on GBT that were pure figments of their imagination and meant to get a rise out of people. Feel free to block him (and his relatives) for your own sanity and move on.  If you are being factual, it sounds like you have nothing to feel guilty about if he was coming on way too strong for you.  If you did not give out personal id info. then you should not need to worry about threats. So no need to get Pa or PD involved yet.  Remember YOU were the 18+ adult who signed up for this Gay Boys Tube site. Now you need to be adult enough to find a way to deal with resolving the issue without escalating further. You also have to option to simply quit GBT and delete your profile.  

Regardless, at some point, you really should have a quiet talk with your dad about being a "bisexual", but I would highly recommend you set it up for success. You too might want to explore this with a trusted gay adult or counselor before talking to your family.  I would encourage you to not bring up this GBT issue for fear you dad will look at your issue here, see all the nude gay men and boys (OMG!!!) that will only escalate his emotions and reinforce his negative stereotypes of gay/bi men and sex and YOU.  If done in a negative emotional light, you would complicate and torpedo your coming out process that could result in you possibly being exiled from the family and set up more drama for yourself.  Overall this is an example of why it is sometimes easier for many here, me included, to NOT regularly engage the with blogs and simply just view the porn.

Recently you should know that I (and likely a couple of other GBT vets) gave NSN the best advice I could about his issues and suicidal ideation in response to one of his blogs. I referred him to the professionals at the Trevor project or the Samaritans hotlines.  If he was truthful, I sincerely hope that if he is really depressed and desperate he seeks professional help from them or trusted counselor. It is up to him to do the work to deal with his issues.  None of us, including you, can do that for him. 

On another point, you say you reported this problem to Nick18 as you should. But remember he likely deals with lots of complaints and tech issues on a daily basis.   So do not look upon his silence or apparent lack of action as him not caring and doing anything.  Additionally, if you have had some pics or background images, etc. deleted, it might not be Nick punishing you for complaining, you might want to consider if the pics could have been possibly flagged as underage illegal nude mages by him or concerned GBT members.  

I hope comments here by me and others helps both you and NSN, if he sees this.  Please remember joining GBT will not resolve your problems or necessarily help you find love, but with patience and involving less drama you might find a few people with whom you can chat, develop a rapport and possibly trust down the road.  Good luck!  Tom

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very similar complaints about him along the same lines before in blogs lots of drama.and his vulnerable and the likes but honestly its not my job your jobs or anyone elses job here to make sure his ok sounds cold but you look out for your self on line first,,  

i have seen similar complaints about him before.best to block him and just delete any messages without reading them.its not your fault if his emotionally unstable or a risk to him self.just refuse to engage at all with them  

Now the admins have taken down my avatar and background

i like you bro, but you should stop this public assault on the guy.  He's one that could injure himself if youre not careful.  

He's pretty well known for having terrible depression and other related problems.  Probably best if you take this blog down and just quietly put him on block.  He's a pretty vulnerable guy emotionally..

This is the 26-39 who put me through hell

https://www.gayboystube.com/user/neversaynever