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Sexual History
Mostly into girls sexually until age 20. No sex. Suddenly I found short males attractive. What do I do? Since Bi did not seem an option, I went with marriage. I was very content, until I failed to please her. When my wife cut WAY back on the sex I eventually turned to porn cubicles. Men kept hitting on me. After a couple of years, I allowed men to fondle me. I only liked short and cute males, but I was short and cute. So here was my "solution" - after a few years of sexual frustration I turned to manly men to fuck me, and I would be the short and cute that I liked. Thus, though I fantasize about fucking cute males, I only bottom for many males! I tried marriage all over again and it failed all over again, for reasons not directly due to my Bi tendancies.
Trust me, I'm Bi too. Sex isn't the solution for everything in your relationship.
The other person has to help you figure out that they're looking for in their pleasures and desires. If they don't tell you or hide something, you can't read their mind. Unfortunately, not all relationships last forever. Enjoy them as long as you can. If worth it, keep working on them - as they are always work. Some people do need more than one person in a sexual experience to feel satisfied in their physical desires. Some have more "open" relationships to achieve this. Hopefully, you can find something to get some love as well.
*hugs*