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I can't even "chat 'em up"
There was a young guy (19 ~ 22) who I first stood opposite on the train a couple of weeks ago. Let's just say that unless he was wearing a box, he was extremely well developed where it matters and filled his suit very well! I've now seen him several times in Chelmsford, usually in the shopping area sharing a joke with work colleages, and believe this "mop top" works in ECC buildings. I've been trying to pluck up the courage to at least say "Hallo" each evening... which is difficult when they're a perfect stranger.
Long story short, I had cause to buy a 4 pack of "John Smiths", of which only two were used. As a non-drinker, the other two would go to waste. So on the train home that eve, I thought "GO FOR IT!" Plucking up all my courage, I politely said "Excuse me, do you drink at all?" "No!" came the short rebuff. So as not to look obvious, I asked the 15st fat guy opposite. That met with an icy glare. So I put the cans on the next seat. Jokily I said, "Can't even give them away!" I said, trying to start a conversation. All I got was a half smile to say "leave me alone"
At the station, he went up the stairs, totally ignoring me. I thought "Oh well, mate! You couldn't have made that any more obvious that you don't want to chat!!" (I suppose he could be excused for thinking I'd want to 'take things further', but all I was trying to do was be friendly)
I've now finished my course in Chelmsford, so our paths should never cross again. Ahh well, maybe I'll find someone "decent" to chat to on a train journey one day!
ruudboy when i was at university i was with friends lazying on the college green one afternoon after lectures a rough kid came up to me and said - your gay - well was taken aback - i said no as a knee jerk responce
Think is, I'm not the 'active' type, (I think the term is asexual?) Yes, I like 'viewing the merchanise' - else why would I be here - but I've never whipped out my credit card so to speak! I would have treated him as a male friend with perhaps a lot in the shop window. But alas, most people would assume the other person wanted to get 'jiggy' I'm still of a juvenile mind set, and whilst I might =MIGHT= go as far as "Mr Thumb and his four sons", using any other orrifice wouldn't appeal to me.
But as you say, wasn't to be, so move on and live with the memories
If he was gay and was at all interested in you, he wouldn't have been so short with you. If you do see him again, don't bother. It's not going to happen. Just move on to someone else. But don't stop trying. If you cruise enough guys, the percentages are that you'll score with one sooner of later. You just can't tell in advance which ones. But if you stop cruising, you'll never find a friendly port to dock your cock.
i'll bet we all have a story like that somewhere in our closet. don't give up
Bad luck! Better luck next time but only around 10% of guys are gay/bi so you are going to miss out some times. I met a guy in a gym once who helped me out physically a lot but when I tried to take it further in the shower he made it plain that I had misread him