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Oh what a day I had

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I got suspended from school today. Some fuck nut called me a fudge packer as he tripped me when i was carrying my lunch to my table in the cafeteria. So I hit him in the face. He got suspended. I can't return to school until Monday. I just couldn't help myself. And now I am so angry at myself. I should of walked away. Now I need to watch my back more than ever. He has his friends who may retaliate for him. They just better leave Dallas alone. But I did show this guy that I will not take any shit from anyone. 

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HornyTwinksCock15
HornyTwinksCock15
10 years ago

Good for you for defending yourself!! I had a little bit different experience in high school back in 2014 -- as a social "experiment" i TRIED to sit with a new group of boys during lunch....this one kid was NASTY to me...he DIDN'T like the fact i took it upon myself to sit with his friends WITHOUT asking so he kept saying ---- RIGHT in front of me - "fucking retard took the seat again!"!".... i honestly was helpless because NO principal or teacher was around to stand up for me, none of my friends helped, so iTRIED handling this myself ...i looked the kid right in the eyes and firmly said 'you know what, that's REALLY not cool! i KNOW you wouldn't say that to your friends!'...and then the LAST day of lunch -- for the school year -- after i accidentally spilled my snack, instead of being nice & perhaps offering to buy a snack for me (or showing SOME act of kindness) he said "what a retard!" -- i called him out for it but he lied right to my face and said 'I DIDN'T say that to you, i said that to the person behind you'.

mirish7
mirish7
10 years ago

Good to hear you stood up for yourself. Now that your point has been made, I really hope the jerks leave you and Dallas alone and you can graduate with a decent record to move on to college or career. You sound like a pretty strong dude to make it this far. From your story it appears you have taken lemons and made lemonade. Just continue to remember, it does get better!!!! My best to you. (((((HUGS)))))

darkknightreturns
darkknightreturns
10 years ago

I am not a violent person normally but I had an older brother who bullied me relentlessly and molested me twice. At 16 he crossed the line and I socked him, and he hit the floor. Problem 1 was solved. Problem 2, we never speak and are estranged to this day. There is a good book out there called "The Gentle Art of Verbal Self Defence" by Suzette Elgin. Search it out at your library. I use the methods for the "assholes" I meet in life who want to bully, snipe at me, or critique me .

10 years ago

Benji, you're breaking my heart so bad. I hate hate hate so much to hear people being bullied on account of being gay. It doesn't matter if you're in highschool or college or you're working at some company somewhere, its all the same. He is very much violating you're civil rights and causing you pain, suffering, and emotional distress. If you want it to end for good, once and for all, seek out a licensed attorney in your state and have the guy threaten the family and the school board with a $1 million lawsuit. Afterwards, sit back and watch how quickly things fall in order.

10 years ago

Well in my day I would have just walked away, but now I am not the person I was then.. Now I would finish him Im affraid. I absolutely dont tollerate any sort of stuff like that, whether about gays, blacks or anything that makes people feel shit. I am not as patient as I used to be. Sorry if this goes against the grain but hey.... we arent all the same.

funksexual
funksexual
10 years ago

Great, Ben! :)

10 years ago

No fights at school today. The asshole bully kept his distance. Dallas and I had lunch in the cafeteria today which was real refreshing. Some people even came up to me just to let me know they were glad to see me back.

10 years ago

unfortunatly sometimes you need too knock this s%$t out of those types of guys

funksexual
funksexual
10 years ago

Good for you for fighting back but I feel where you're coming from. People can be so cruel.

10 years ago

The only way to stop bullying is fight back. I was bullied for years and let it go because I didn't want to get in trouble. When I fought back it stopped. Good job!

mophead2009
mophead2009
10 years ago

an instant reaction easy i understand that - hot headed reaction lands you in jail - keep a cool head plan and think proactive - i was the runt whose only way up was to think clever

10 years ago

I had that problem a couple of times, but I fought my way out of it. No one ever called me names after that!!!

boy707
boy707
10 years ago

This is the only way to react. If he ever looks at you again punch him in the face, as strong as you can, and kick him in the balls. This way, and only this way you will feel free.

mikey997
mikey997
10 years ago

At least when you go back on Monday and beats the shit out of you, you will knew why.

You should have ignored it and rose above it that would have made you a stronger person unfortunately now your just as bad as him .

swiftjohn
swiftjohn
10 years ago

@guynmuskogee : You say violence isn't always the right choice and that is indeed true. The key part of your statement is "isn't always" which implies that sometimes it is. One must think of violence as merely another tool in one's toolbox. And as the old saying goes - "the proper tool for the proper job". And the craftsman always knows which tool to use and when. High school is like the Serengeti of life - filled with predators and prey. The gazelle cannot reason with the lion, only run and hide from it. But in a captive environment like high school, there is no running or hiding because the predator will always be there hunting for you tomorrow. And since Benji can't run or hide, his only option is to fight. And that takes violence. - the proper tool for the proper job.

10 years ago

Violence isn't always the right choice. With that being said, I wish I had the balls to do what you did. Maybe if I did the same thing when I was in high school the bullies would of left me alone. 

10 years ago

BRAVO BENJI!! I'm proud of you bud. (((HUGZ))) Generally speaking, I am all for non-violent solutions, but sometimes you have to make an exception. I think swiftjohn's advise and comments are spot-on! Read what he says over again....and I'll bet this bully stays away from you from now on. The next thing I STRONGLY encourage you to do is start a 'gay-straight alliance' at your school. I think you will be surprised how many kids would be willing to support it and even join. You can do it Benji!! Go here to get started: http://www.glsen.org/students

10 years ago

The solution...
You just have to to break an arm or face to one ...
And all your problems are over

guynflint
guynflint
10 years ago

you did as you naturally wanted to. you don't have to tell your sorry. when i was your age we didn't get suspended for standing up for ourselves. and i did on several times. the last time was identical to yours without the lunch tray.. i said "wouldn't you like to know..not on your best day"!.. then i decked him. his bud came at me and i reached down and grabbed him package and squeezed as hard as i could. he went down as well. was he alone or did he have buds with him? if a guy says smthg like that and is alone..then just insult him and move on. otherwise, he is trying to impress the other guys by bullying you, and you have to take him out. chances are he is trying to compensate for his small penis. they always are

gm4yngr
gm4yngr
10 years ago

I hope that one punch is the last you have to deliver to end the stupidity of this and other bullies in your school. If there is not an anti-bullying group in your school you should start one. Talk to a trusted teacher or counselor about the problem of bullying. There are a lot of good kind-hearted kids and adults that can band together to stand against the bullies. It is a great new trend, there is safety in numbers and a lot more straight people are now more open about standing up for gays. I hope that you will not only continue to stand up for yourself, but also become part of a group that stands up for others too. An anti-bullying group in your school can help many future kids from being picked on. I hope that everything works out for you and Dallas, hang in there!

10 years ago

While perfectly understandable, you are correct in the respect that you should have walked away. Don't get me wrong. If he had assaulted you, you are well within your rights to defend yourself. But (if you are around gay men long enough), you will find that there are so many other ways to defend yourself through wit, and make the other person look like a complete idiot, without violence. "I'm flattered, dear, but you're not my type." Etc., etc. Try verbally flattening him before you resort to fists again. Best wishes.

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