Nafian's Blogs

Everyone loves a hot guy with a great cock and heated wild sex with him! I know I do! But just remember there's a real person behind that sexy body. Too many people have blind sex with one another just because of how they look and what they have in the equipment department, and that's okay for what it is. But we also need to learn to respect and care about one another as a person with real feelings, hopes, desires and dreams. Don't be rolling your eyes at that, just think about it, and bear with me for a minute.<br /><br />This is why I love (usually amateur) videos of guys that show they really care about one another. Yes, the sex can be hot, raw, wild, crazy and totally J/O worthy. But in the end, I think it's even hotter when there is true love and respect there. As I say in my profile info, the cock is something to behold, is beautiful and great to share; but it also needs to be respected and treated with love and care. But not only by it's owner, but by anyone who is privledged enough to get to make love to it. Some people may think that sounds kinda weird, but it's really not, it's just self-respect and love. However, and please remember, there is a huge difference between self-love and respect and being a stuck-up narcissist.<br /><br />Self-love is free, respectful, caring, sensuous and romantic; while arrogant narcissism is imprisoning and incarcerates one to a certain aspect of our lives within the gay community. We hate it when we're stereotyped, yet that's exactly what a sexy, hot guy does to himself when he's snobby, stuck on himself and won't give a second look to anyone he feels is lesser than he is. Being beautiful, does not make anyone more or less human and finite, it just makes them blessed, with a gift they should never abuse. So the next time you see someone "not so pretty" sitting across the room looking lonely and full of hope; go talk to him, make a new friend, no one says you have to marry him for fuck sake. Because believe it or not, just simply acknowledging him will probably make his day.<br /><br />To all you hot beautiful men out there, trust me, the years go fast and I see you in there hiding behind that gorgeous body. But don't be scared, just be real, kind, caring, honest and true to yourself and others. Then when the beauty starts to fade over the years that many think is so important, you won't be left with nothing but memories and web porn.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />Nafian