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No one on GBT, looking at the most popular or most watched or favourited vids, or seeing the pics most common on the blogs, or even just viewing the overwhelming majority of gay porn, can be under any misunderstanding about what most GBT'ers and most gay guys find sexy. Smoothness. Sometimes it's because smoothness equals the charms of youth, sometimes it's because smoothness is just an aesthetic preference, sometimes it's perhaps because smoothness just lays the male physique more bare, open and tactile. And hey, there's no doubt smoothness, in front of a fireplace on a hot steamy night, feels great in the hands. But I've personally always had one serious caveat to all that. Shaved body hair turns me right off. I prefer the honesty of the natural. Me myself I've never been hairy over most of me, just under the arms, downstairs and normal amount on the legs. In guys I'm with, smoothness sure, as long as there is a serious bunch of pubic bushiness and underarm hair. The 'shaved' pube look turns me off faster than pretty much anything to the point where I just can't go on with someone who is really shaved down below. I can see a porn vid where the guys are clearly gorgeous, but when the camera moves down and there's no lovely thicket of pubic hair or underarm hair, I just switch off. My previous boyfriend and current friend/sex partner have had not only chest hair but hairy legs and not only has my prefence for smoothness gone right out the window with them because they were so awesome in bed, but the extra bit of hairiness has actually been a turn on. Just the maleness of it. Their charm, the chemistry, the fondness, the horniness of being with them, has banished the vague preference for smoothness pretty much out of my head. So just wondering how this whole equation works for other guys. Ultimately I've realised I could not care less about the body hair issue. It is far down the list of things I actually care about.