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You can buy these at any adult novelty store near you. And don't feel embarrassed going in. The people who work there have seen everything, understand everything and you're nothing unusual. First the dildo. You want one that is medium size made of flexible latex with the ball bag and a suction cup at the end. Medium size because too small and you don't get the full pleasure of being filled or being probed to any depth. Too big and you could over stretch the rectal muscles and possibly do some damage - particularly if you're not used to taking things up your ass. Flexible latex so it will conform to the curvatures of you rectum regardless of what position you choose to fuck yourself in. The ball bag will prevent the dildo from accidentally slipping all the way inside you and that awkward trip to the emergency room and the embarrassing questions that go with it. The suction cup at the end allows you to stick it to the door, the floor or any other smooth surface you come up with. That way you can fuck yourself hands free and thus focus completely on the wonderful sensations you're feeling inside you. This is also a good way to start training your sphincter and rectum to get it ready for when you start taking real cocks inside you. I would also suggest putting a condom on it before use simply to make clean up easier afterwards. Be sure to get some lube that's water based which is safe for latex and use it liberally. And now for the butt plug. The tapered neck behind the bulb allows it to stay in the rectum without being squeezed out and the handle keeps it from slipping all the way in. This allows you to walk around all day enjoying the pleasures of feeling you rectum filled and the pressures on your prostate without anyone knowing you're wearing one. Another time to wear one is if you're fucking a guy and as soon as you ejaculate inside him, the two of you switch positions for him to fuck you. Also, the butt plug when combined with a fairly full urinary bladder will squeeze the prostate between them making for a longer, more intense orgasm with a larger volume of sperm being ejaculated inside him. The butt plug will have loosened your rectum and relaxed your sphincter so as soon as you lay down and spread your legs for him, you or he simply pulls it out and immediately replaces it with his cock which will slide effortlessly inside you without any further preparation for entry. Now then, since you're going to begin exploring anal pleasures, I strongly suggest getting an enema kit and practice using it. I happen to prefer the kind with the big bag, hose and nozzle. When the big day come when a guy fucks you for the first time, you want your rectum to be squeaky clean for him. That way there won't be any mess or odor detracting from what should be a beautiful experience. Enjoy.

Id go with a butt plug if I were you. Guarantee youll love it once you learn how to use it good. I use one and I love it. It feels great and makes me cum like crazy...

For one, anything inserted in the anus essentially stimulates the male prostrate in and area where there are a high number of nerves. You may want to read more at the following link; http://goaskalice.columbia.edu/butt-plug
Speaking only for myself, I prefer being the bottom and being the one penetrated. It is very important that you not try and over do it the 1st time around. Along with the high concentration of nerves there is also a high concentration of veins which are typically near the surface so to much to soon can you can rupture one. If you do don't panic, they generally do not bleed much and heal quickly but you can risk infection, as is always the case be clean about what your doing.