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I found this whilst clicking around, a guy I know came out of the closet...I feel like I've found a video of him having sex, I'm excited and I don't know why

Blog Last Activity 12 years ago 523 views 5 comments
I read the article and found it really helpful and now I feel less alone. The only thing now is how to approach him and tell him I'm gay too, its something that shouldn't worry me because he's also gay but it does http://www.gaysurfers.net/2014/03/growing-up-in-ireland/

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mophead2009
mophead2009
12 years ago

that article was really interesting the best message was accept yourself and others will accept you if they are true to themselves too - you dont have to stand in the town square holding up a board saying im gay the intuitive people arround you already know = from personal experience i told my twin bro directly im gay and that didnt go down well ( i think he has issues ) but when i said to my sister why does everyone have problems with me not having a girlfriend she thought for a time and understood and said ok so guess a subtile approach works for some anyway i know a friend who is itching to come out my advice to him would be be who you are not what you think people think you should be tc my friend

12 years ago

never feel you are compelled to come out. Do it only if you are comfortable with it and can judge what the reaction of friends and family might be. You are not alone in this quest. many of us here have had the same struggles. If it feels better talk to some one here private. hugz paparon xoxo

12 years ago

I'm going to be seeing him tomorrow, I'm going to call for him and try slip it in. Thanks guy

BATTLEFIELD3
BATTLEFIELD3
12 years ago

Maybe the answer to problem is in this blog. If saying "I'm gay" is awkward or sticks your throat like you're saying "Hi. I suck cock."
Maybe you could just say "Hi. I read your article about coming out and I found it really helpful, and now I don't feel so alone. There are different ways to come out to people. Figure out what is comfortable for you and gets the message across effectively. I agree that written communication might be a good start, too.

12 years ago

So long as you are in the closet, you will always be worried about confiding in anybody you know or might meet. Some guys manage to stay on the 'down low' after coming out to one person. Chances are better that somebody who is Out and who has gone thru what you're experiencing won't Out you, but there is no guarantee. You might try emailing him first, using a new email address that you don't use with friends or family.
--R.D.

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