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bensmithy Blog Last Activity 6 years ago 1.7K views 21 comments
How hard was it for you guys? it was horrible for me just wondered if its always hard or not

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jaceobe
jaceobe
6 years ago

It was pretty easy for me, just really nerve wracking. I was really nervous, my stomach was in a knot, but I had my (then) boyfriend with me, it made it easier and in the end it all turned out fine.

lhard1469
lhard1469
6 years ago

didnt  have choice in it--skipped school one day with a friend went to my house where we sucked and fucked all day--then while i was getting fucked--again--my bedroom door opened--it was my mom--she came home from work early--

ZanyZander
ZanyZander
6 years ago

I can't see myself coming out...however.    I outed everyone else all at one time in one breath by declaring everyone else (all people/humans!) to be bisexual whether they realized it or admitted to it or not.     :)    See how I did that and how it works?    :)

Alfieri2021
Alfieri2021
6 years ago

My dad said i was going to hell, my mom knew i was gay. My younger twin sisters was worried that I might sleep with their future boyfriends.

northhunter
northhunter
14 years ago

I'm not out and don't see how I can be for a while yet anyway. I would loose everything I think, my job, my family, yes I said family. I have talked with some of you about how I had to play along in High School, well that continued to this day. I'm married with three adult children the youngest will have his 21st birthday in a month. I am extremly discreet and careful about getting together with another guy so as to not embarras my family who I really do love, I am what I am though and will continue to find others lie me as there are a lot of us out there.

1antoniomac
1antoniomac
14 years ago

i havent came out yet and dont plan on it for a while i mean why do people have to know my sexuality (im Bi) if your going to like me your going to like me for me not my sexuality

14 years ago

its my secret till i decide otherwise :P
after reading some horrible coming out stories i want to be totally independent before telling my deeply religious mum....call me crazy but my gut instinct says she wont be too happy with her only son being gay.

so i think al wait :P

14 years ago

I'm in the middle of coming out. a few of my close friends know and they have taken it really well. but when i told my best girl friend (no not my girlfriend my girl friend) she totally freaked out and assumed i was a pedo. WTF is with that???
Its been about 6 months now and i think she has come back down to earth. she's talking to me again and she knows that i would never hurt her or her son. I love them soo much. sometimes you just need to work it through and make them realise that your still the same person you where before they knew you were gay. you've just got a little less weight on your shoulders holding you down.

Good luck to anybody coming out!

14 years ago

I came out to everyone at once when I was 16. My friends were all supportive and accepting. Most of them said they knew already. My parents just said GET OUT.

14 years ago

i am ok with and so is my parents i on what fabio in on with i think you need to join a group to help you thourge this mate i did i them it was easyer not say it work but try talk to some one some time it better to talk to other family meber there got to be some you trust in your family to help you get it a cross to your parents if you not told but as i say it not easy but try and find a group to join there hope fully one that can help you then you can live and be happy i am allso as i am here to help if you whant to send me a email as i help a lot as i said be fore i set up a group call so you like a fella sound odd one may thibk but it to help breack the ice so some think like this work i have no web site as it keep get pull cos it get bome buy thought that under stand you be a maze how manie nasy thing can be said most of the time it was from teen boy who were gay and just can not cope with i sort out most of them cos the first thing you got to do is get there mate to exsepet it first and to help them yiu not win cos it some time the view of the parnets that stop them some time cos there mate say so act but i say he a mate you no him for how long and you did push away till you new he was gay or a common term is your a puff fag bum bboy ect so i stop now and as get invove in a group or email me with your thought i leand aear you you and try help mate

desertsolo
desertsolo
14 years ago

i am 72...knew i was gay at 14...was never discussed in my family..never! wasted a lot of years..went thru a lot of guilt! guys....you got to be yourselves....not who your parents or friends want you to be! life is precious and it goes fast! be happy, be who you are!

fabio1232008
fabio1232008
14 years ago

oh i like boys only sexually too. Can't imagine myself dating a boy. But i really hate the fact of being bisexual i do wish, i'd do anything to became straight but unfortunately i think i can't :/
I know my parents will accept me, i am sure about that, but it's that i just dont want to be, you know.. i think i will never tell anyone!

14 years ago

It's my little secret. I'm only sexually attracted to boys (dicks, and ass), but fully attracted to girls. It's like if you have a weird sexual fetish, you don't go around telling people; although it would be different if i was romantically attracted to boys.

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