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Bad Dating Experience
Before I start I just wanted to say thanks for a wonderful community you guys are I never had any issues with anyone here and don't plan onto starting any issues with everyone here.
For people that don't know two weekends ago I was to have this awesome date with this guy who I was hooked up with. We been talking for about six weeks before we finally were to go on this date. We did talk on the phone ,text eachother and even hung out together. So after about the six weeks I asked him out since he did ask a few times during the times we have chatted. He was totally excited about going out and said yes without even pausing to think. To tell you more about him he was so into things I liked, same video games, movies, sports you name it. To bad he didn't like wrestling but told me he give it a chance and watch it with me. Then that day came that we were to date and he text me the night before asking if I was excited to go out. I told him yes I was and could now wait. He told me to plan the evening the way I wanted it since he wanted it to be special for me. Since I was working the night before I was thinking about this date during my shift and knew it was hurting my productivity since it was on my mind and was super excited for it. Then the next day came, my best friend wish me luck that morning since he was happy for me to finally find someone. Even if my best friend is homophobic he still been there for me. Thanks to members here at GBT helped me come out to my friends but will not rush to tell my family since religious issues might make them not accept me but that for another story but then again some of you awesome guys here know that story. Then it comes time for my date I am so excited that I been feeling sick to my stomach but I know it just nervousness that just kicking in. When I arrive at the place we were to meet before our awesome night I text him that I am there but get no reply back. After about 15 minutes while waiting I give him a call no answer. Now I am starting to get worried that something happened to him so I call his house, still no answer. After about an 30 minutes waiting I order my food since was getting hungry normally I will wait but while worrying about him and being hungry needed something to keep me from worrying a lot more then I should. After about an hour I text him back that I am leaving and that to text me when you arrive since I only lived 10 minutes from our meeting place. After getting home I went on Facebook checking that out and wanted to message him there to just in case he see it first over his phone messages and texts however I found out he blocked me there. From that just made me so upset that at least tell me that he not interested. Thanks to friends here and my two best friends to comfort me because of this.
After about a few weeks after that terrible date. I had the guts to ask someone else out on a date. I meet him at a local community center were I volunteered from time to time with my best friends. He too had some similar interest but noticeably he was a nerd who I found cute. We been hanging out for some time but never knew he was gay till recently which struck me and later while getting to know that he single I asked him out. Well last night we went on our first date, went to dinner, saw a movie, then went for this nice walk through a park making our way back to his house. I told him that I had this awesome night and he replied as well that he had a great time too. I then went to ask him when would you want to have our second date and he then replied that I don't think that will happened. I then asked him why he then replied that I was to feminine. I was like I am as manly as it gets and would be the best boyfriend that he ever had just because I am the most caring person that you know, then I just walked away crying. Then today I got over what happened last night well it is Monday morning here so technically it was Saturday night I just because of my awesome best friend I have comforted me who I truly think is an awesome person along with you guys who have been taking the time to read this. However not like the other guy who left me hanging this guy had the balls to apologize to me as I was typing this blog out. I told him that I do accept your apology but all so said that you have to work up again to a second date because I had second thoughts about him since I don't want to get hurt again since he already hurt me once and once is enough. I also told him what I said lastnight about being caring and he told me I know he could see that in me. I just don't know if I should trust him but I will still be friends and see if he worth dating.
Just wish people in the real world I live in were a lot like you guys here a lot of you think I am awesome which I am because of who I am. Even someone here thinks I am perfect and you know who you are. Well enough of me going on and on I bet I can write a whole book on this but would not want to bore you guys out of your minds. For the people that did take the chance to read this all I give you a big hug but also shows that you care about me too. I can't wait to hear what you guys think but it also good to get it off my chest since it been bugging me for two weeks now. Thanks
For people that don't know two weekends ago I was to have this awesome date with this guy who I was hooked up with. We been talking for about six weeks before we finally were to go on this date. We did talk on the phone ,text eachother and even hung out together. So after about the six weeks I asked him out since he did ask a few times during the times we have chatted. He was totally excited about going out and said yes without even pausing to think. To tell you more about him he was so into things I liked, same video games, movies, sports you name it. To bad he didn't like wrestling but told me he give it a chance and watch it with me. Then that day came that we were to date and he text me the night before asking if I was excited to go out. I told him yes I was and could now wait. He told me to plan the evening the way I wanted it since he wanted it to be special for me. Since I was working the night before I was thinking about this date during my shift and knew it was hurting my productivity since it was on my mind and was super excited for it. Then the next day came, my best friend wish me luck that morning since he was happy for me to finally find someone. Even if my best friend is homophobic he still been there for me. Thanks to members here at GBT helped me come out to my friends but will not rush to tell my family since religious issues might make them not accept me but that for another story but then again some of you awesome guys here know that story. Then it comes time for my date I am so excited that I been feeling sick to my stomach but I know it just nervousness that just kicking in. When I arrive at the place we were to meet before our awesome night I text him that I am there but get no reply back. After about 15 minutes while waiting I give him a call no answer. Now I am starting to get worried that something happened to him so I call his house, still no answer. After about an 30 minutes waiting I order my food since was getting hungry normally I will wait but while worrying about him and being hungry needed something to keep me from worrying a lot more then I should. After about an hour I text him back that I am leaving and that to text me when you arrive since I only lived 10 minutes from our meeting place. After getting home I went on Facebook checking that out and wanted to message him there to just in case he see it first over his phone messages and texts however I found out he blocked me there. From that just made me so upset that at least tell me that he not interested. Thanks to friends here and my two best friends to comfort me because of this.
After about a few weeks after that terrible date. I had the guts to ask someone else out on a date. I meet him at a local community center were I volunteered from time to time with my best friends. He too had some similar interest but noticeably he was a nerd who I found cute. We been hanging out for some time but never knew he was gay till recently which struck me and later while getting to know that he single I asked him out. Well last night we went on our first date, went to dinner, saw a movie, then went for this nice walk through a park making our way back to his house. I told him that I had this awesome night and he replied as well that he had a great time too. I then went to ask him when would you want to have our second date and he then replied that I don't think that will happened. I then asked him why he then replied that I was to feminine. I was like I am as manly as it gets and would be the best boyfriend that he ever had just because I am the most caring person that you know, then I just walked away crying. Then today I got over what happened last night well it is Monday morning here so technically it was Saturday night I just because of my awesome best friend I have comforted me who I truly think is an awesome person along with you guys who have been taking the time to read this. However not like the other guy who left me hanging this guy had the balls to apologize to me as I was typing this blog out. I told him that I do accept your apology but all so said that you have to work up again to a second date because I had second thoughts about him since I don't want to get hurt again since he already hurt me once and once is enough. I also told him what I said lastnight about being caring and he told me I know he could see that in me. I just don't know if I should trust him but I will still be friends and see if he worth dating.
Just wish people in the real world I live in were a lot like you guys here a lot of you think I am awesome which I am because of who I am. Even someone here thinks I am perfect and you know who you are. Well enough of me going on and on I bet I can write a whole book on this but would not want to bore you guys out of your minds. For the people that did take the chance to read this all I give you a big hug but also shows that you care about me too. I can't wait to hear what you guys think but it also good to get it off my chest since it been bugging me for two weeks now. Thanks
Just keep trying my man!
In my opinion it sounds like Johnny had a lucky escape with both guys - who seem like creeps.