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Why is it so hard to find a fuck buddy?

Blog Last Activity 13 years ago 825 views 10 comments
You know guys I just would like to find a guy in my area that I could get together with now and then for some good old plain sex. No drama no Bull shit just him and I together giving each other pleasure, then once the urges are satisfied we go. Is that wrong? Why does it have to be complex? Why does everyone want to make a big deal? You come over we get naked we bust a nut or two in each other you get dressed and leave. We do it again next week, no muss no fuss, no whining over our feelings no drama, no presents no lets move in together no lets get married. Damn when we get horny we fuck like animals, then go back to our regular lives

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onlyinvegas
onlyinvegas
13 years ago

nice post Rando.

13 years ago

i'm from the country..not even a town. the closest is 30 mins away but, all the guys just seem to want to trade pix!! i dont do that.. oh, btw.. "all the guys" is like 4-5.. lols from 16-70..
i just dont get that horny to have "glory hole" sex. i have to know a guy first. call me wierd!
1 day you will meet sum1 that overwhelms you. only then will you know what to do...
:-)

jack1947
jack1947
13 years ago

I also am living in a small town and your right on, its tough. One would think that it should be easy to find someone for just a good intense fuck. The older I get the harder it is to find someone too. If I were caught picking up a women in a bar and fucking her it would be understood however if I got caught in bed with another man i would get run out of town on a rail. Small town people with small town minds.

northhunter
northhunter
13 years ago

I was just thinking of this very thing the other day. I used to have the perfect "fuck buddy". Every now and then we would get together, no drama or bullshit just sex between to adult males. His job took him across the country so we don't get together anymore. It ws greeat while it lasted though.

13 years ago

the preachers son or the preacher are even money.....

13 years ago

The basic problem is being in a small town if you try a gay club and you are not"out" you soon will be. Being in the bible belt a person who is young and in college being out is accepted but a person who is 50 who is out is instantly branded a pedophile if he is gay. I would lose my job etc. Discretion is the better part of valor in this closed minded community, most gay men my age are blue collar or unemployed, or closeted. I hate to say that but I've lived here all my life and thats just how it is. My best lover was a construction worker who was 25 and he would just stop by once a week on his way home from work. He would get head or fuck the hell out of me and go, it was an intense 30 to 45 minutes. I only knew his first name. He moved about 5 years ago and have had no one since. I only met him because he was putting a roof on my house and he noticed me staring at him shirtless.

maxwomack
maxwomack
13 years ago

If you are not comfotable with the gay bar scene, you might consider attending public events such as concerts, sports, or community events such as the Forth of July. Look for other single guys. If your gaydar is not great maybe someone else's is. If you meet someone take it slowly until you are both comfortable with each other. You both need to know that you are in a safe relationship eventhough it is not to be a long term one. You should also be honest with the other guy that you are just looking for fb.

13 years ago

also ..friend networking. you know someone who knows someone. you are in a small town. it is not easy i'm sure.

13 years ago

i looked up your town. there are a few gay bars. marthas vineyard and latin something. not sure how you are going about finding what you want. gay bars are the usual place to hookup.

Nex
Nex
13 years ago

This is what really mean "friends with benefits".

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